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For the past few days controversy issues between celebrities like Manny-Krista, Tiger Woods and his mistresses had taken the entertainment world by storm. Comments elsewhere said these international superstars were cheating.
If you’re reading this, then there is a huge likelihood that you’ve had a relationship (or three) in your life. People come and go for different reasons, mainly a natural progression of growth that leads you in different directions, but sometimes you run into a cheater; one who’s cheated on an ex or even you. A subject often up for debate is whether cheaters can ever change.
Does the saying “once a cheater always a cheater” actually hold true?
Unfortunately, it’s up to the cheater to decide the answer to that question. They have to make a dedicated decision to change and the only way to do that is to first identify the reasons for their infidelity in the first place. Check out the five most common reasons for cheating.
Will your lover be able to change his ways?
Check this out!
Unhappy relationship – Sometimes, people find themselves in a relationship that is bringing them down. Either they’re constantly being nagged, there’s a lack of trust and communication, or all three. This puts your relationship in the danger zone and you seriously need to rethink why you’re with the person. If you’re not happy, chances are your significant other isn’t either…which could lead to seeking pleasure elsewhere.
Lack of empathy - Occasionally, you might find yourself with an ice king or queen with a heart of stone. These people are typically closed off to feelings for different various reasons, which is normally a defense mechanism used when the person is insecure and afraid of getting hurt. Because of their tremendous fear, they end up cheating on you to avoid future pain.
Need for excitement – These people are all about the thrill and will probably grow out of cheating if it has become a habit. They want a relationship and get attached, but lust for excitement due to immaturity.
Too much opportunity – If your man or woman is often not by your side for work related reasons or because you’re schedule is overloaded with obligations, then there is a big chance that this type of cheater is just lonely and starving for some attention. Again, this type of person can easily change their ways.
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